Breath, Breathing, Breathwork

January 31st, 2012

Breathing into your new body.


On top of studying, practicing and integrating Thai/yoga massage and Chi Nei Tsang abdominal massage into my work, I have also been integrating more breathwork into my sessions. By teaching them conscious breath techniques, connecting the breath with the body, my client’s are able to expand their awareness of and then release their stored/stuck crap. The results have been dramatic and powerful!!!

Breathing starts deep in the pelvis (root chakra), and involves the loosening of the abdomen (hara, dan tien, second chakra) to make room for the expansion of your intercostals (ribcage), and the expansion of your diaphragm into the abdomen. Muscles in your back, shoulders, neck and face are also subtly involved. In fact, breathing is a full body activity and is the bridge between the physical, mental/emotional and spiritual aspects of our lives.

Breathing is an autonomic physical process. Breathwork is learning that you can consciously control and change your breathing. Shallow, quick breathing (the way so many of us breath on a regular basis), activates your sympathetic nervous system, creating and amplifying anxiety.  Slowing and deepening your breath activates your parasympathetic nervous system, which calms your body and helps you to release toxins built up from all that anxious breathing you’ve been doing. In short, learning and practicing proper breathing is incredibly important.

All breathwork techniques are variations of depth combined with speed. In my work I use combinations of deep and slow, and deep and fast to teach the diaphragm, intercostals, spine, abdomen and pelvis to expand. This creates a deeply meditative state, which aids in regression work, brings past and present together, somatically connecting mind-body-spirit.

Deep and slow breath is a receptive, feminine process that works deep pelvic and abdominal movement or lack thereof. Through the awareness of subtle movements in the abdomen and pelvis, a sense of expansion is created around blockages allowing issues to surface where they can be released and integrated.

Quick, deep breath is a technique that requires a lot of work from you. It is a very masculine, yang, agitating and aggressive technique that creates discomfort, stuck places to open. It is meant to disconnect your mind from your body so that your body can begin to express without egoic control or judgment from your mind. This technique can be explosive and cathartic – and a little scary at first.

As I integrate focused breathwork into my sessions, I am finding that theory is becoming reality.  If you can’t “feel” your breath in an area of your body, it is a signal that that part of your body is shut down and you need to bring awareness to it. As your bring awareness grows, you also discover the origins of your issues and answers to releasing them and living a more full and liberated life. Another perspective is that when you become aware of and can release those stuck places, your authentic self has room to move and manifest in the here and now. Good news – right??!!

Transformation is possible –

January 23rd, 2012

Pelvic opening.

Although I have been in this work for a number of years and on this specific journey for nearly two years, I am continually learning and refining how I approach my work and clients. I am always asking the question “What am I actually doing here (here being in a session and working on a particular area of the body)?”
This work is beyond psychotherapy, beyond bodywork, beyond spiritual attunement (although it often includes some or all of these elements). This is a place where you – the client or “participant,” it spite of all the gunk that life throws your way, have the opportunity to connect with, understand and learn to manage your own energies from that creative place beyond the witness. The majority of the people that come to me are very familiar with their “primary scenario” and are asking the question “So? And now what?” This is where you get to possibly answer that question while being accompanied by a fellow traveler, and facilitated to your own self expansion and healing so that you can express in this life from your authentic being.
It is also just some incredible bodywork as we travel through all the places in your body that are holding onto the old stories and habits of thought and being. I have been studying Thai yoga-massage, reflexology and Chi Nei Tsang abdominal work. During this time I have been deeply exploring chest, abdominal and especially pelvic opening.

From Here to There

February 16th, 2011

Late Sunday afternoon, after a mad dash for the last ferry to the mainland, my friend and I dozed dreamily on the top deck watching the twin volcanoes Concepción and Maderas slowly fade into the eastern horizon. This after a weekend of fresh fish, bathing in the gentle waters of Lake Cocibolca (Lake Nicaragua), hammocks, family weddings and lots of Central American sun.

I will be back in the US, landing in Los Angeles on February 22. Hopefully there will be working waiting for me there for a few days but if not I will head up to the Bay Area for a week. Then it is off to Gualala to take a Yoga Massage course, then Mendocino to work and visit friends and family. After that I will be back in the Bay Area for several weeks at a minimum. I hope to see many of you in the next few weeks.

This last month has been filled with surprises for me. I arrived here on January 20 with some expectation of working with Tininiska, a small cooperative here in Managua, doing body work, possibly teaching and generally participating in any way they might need. What I found was a group of dedicated healers who really didn’t need my input, and in spite of not needing me they have invited me in to be a part of this incredible community. I feel truly blessed.

Tininiska was founded by a small group of people headed by a truly powerful healer and Reiki master, Leonor Delgado. They receive anyone from the very poor to the very wealthy, providing alternative healing modalities such as Reiki, Bach Flowers, massage, Chiropractics, Psychological counseling, Yoga classes, Bio-Dance, soy products and herbal remedies. It is a bustling center of preventative and integrated healing arts and truly a leader in this field in Nicaragua. You can check them out on Facebook by “Liking” Tininiska. Hopefully there will be a website soon.

From the first day that I arrived my schedule has been filled beyond capacity and I am seeing at least 12 people a week. It was so quick and so unexpected that I extended my stay for two extra weeks just to see as many people as I possibly could. There is such a need here for deep healing. This is a country that has been fraught with war and violence since the Spanish arrived nearly 500 years ago. The last 100 years have been exceptional volatile, culminating in ten years of “civil” war financed and supported by powerful countries outside of Nicaragua. The accumulated communal pain combined with the personal experiences from the most recent war and the “normal” suffering that we all experience in our lives has created a community in crises – a whole country suffering from PTSD.

Somehow my work here is recognized as a way to begin to relieve the body and mind of the oppressive weight of these accumulated memories. The word is spreading like wildfire and people are waking up and finding the path to their hearts and souls. As I guide them through the breath into their bodies I can see the light coming on – a spark of a memory of who they really are. I believe that the only way we can change the path that we are on in this world is by reaching out and helping those around us with open hearts and minds. In my soul I know that I am doing the work to keep MY heart open and hopefully in this way I get to touch the lives a a few of my fellow human beings.

Last week I was interviewed by a large, national newspaper – El Nuevo Diario – and an article about this work should be coming out on Thursday. At some point we are hoping for a television interview as well. I plan to come back within three months and continue this work as well as start a massage course.

It is an honor to participate in this life.

Lots of love and peace to you all!!

Re-evolution! with James (Transformational Bodyworksm)

Transformational Bodyworksm is a powerful approach to alleviating deep stresses in the body that may have root causes in the emotional, physical or spiritual domain. Reconnect mind and body, clear emotional wounds; unlock cellular memory through profound healing bodywork. James is a highly experienced bodyworker who creates a safe and healing space. Through the use of foundational bodywork techniques he facilitates the opening of blockages in your body, releasing your creative energies so you can live a more fully integrated life. Session are 2-hours. $250 a session.

James Humecky

Transformational Bodywork(sm)

humecky@mcn.org

707-813-8444

www.transformational-bodywork.com

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Uncomfortable – the natural state

September 29th, 2010

There are many mini-shifts that happen in the current of life on a daily basis that I am aware of as one would be aware of a shadow passing through his peripheral vision; barely caught when the sunlight slants just right through the living room window.

I allow the snap of lighting and the cracking of granite thunder that seems to have struck deep inside my sleepy head to bring me to awareness and wakefulness. I loll in the torrential tropical rain, letting its clean freshness cool by burning body, invigorating my senses, quickening my heart.

It is not comfortable to be snapped awake. There is a certain amount of fear and doubt “Is this safe?” “Will I survive?” ‘Will others survive with me?” There is the reminder that waking up also means death. And it is that death that we should be looking for, embracing, celebrating – because comfort will truly kill us.

Then there is the time of rest; of monkeys and birds singing their lives through the open window, perched in the upheld arms of Mother Earth. The time of lolling waves, sunshine, long walks and praying mantises staring at you with wonder, only slightly aware that that you are a million times bigger than them.

Then the snap and crack and the rain begins anew. Do you run for shelter or do run for the hills? Do you sing “The Hills are Alive” at the top of your lungs while spinning wildly in the drenching rain?

Knowing that there is no comfort zone is the most uncomfortable thing of all. We are not destined to reach a place of permanent rest – that is an unnatural state. We are meant to realize that there is no limit to our expansive selves. We talk about “pushing the envelope” and “stretching” but these are really only euphemisms for realizing and being what we are. What we are saying is “opening” and “allowing” and “you are what you are looking for.”

As Rumi says “Break the glass and fall into the glass blower’s breath.”

So we breath and allow the breath to seep into our bones and muscles and all the hidden in-between places, providing the sinew that holds it all together. There is no envelope to push but maybe there is an envelope to open – an invitation to a life as yet unlived.

I welcome the snap and crack and the moments of spine-tingling fear that proceed this new “big bang.”

Those are my thoughts for the morning.

James

Surfing in Nicaragua

July 6th, 2010

The rain is coming down in sheets in Dario, which means nothing is happening until it stops this evening. I am finally catching up on my post since I have been either out of power, had no connection or my blog was hacked and I had to get it fixed. Thank you Brendan.

San Juan del Sur, July 2, 2010

Now if I could only find the beach.

Aaaaaaaaarrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhh!!!!!! That’s what I get for jumping in the water on a 9-foot, long board at 45 years-old, with no preparation, and trying to surf. I got up on the first try and road the little white water all the way in then promptly (doing what I was told to do) fell back gracefully into about eight inches of water right on to my tail bone and bruised the hell out of it. I still feel that one every time I bend over or hit a bump in the road. I felt good and as I was setting up for the third wave – being a puddlepuss and still just practicing on the small white water – I torqued my arm is such a way that the shoulder rolled and felt like it was coming out of the socket, which ended my very short but highly successful surfing career.

The good side is that over the last couple of days I found out what was really going on with my shoulder – especially after consulting the Trigger Point Handbook that my friend Susan has. Through this process I realized that my subscapularis is the focal point of much of my shoulder issues, even down to the second knuckle of my ring finger where I thought I was getting arthritis.

This is also the muscle that is mainly responsible for what is called frozen shoulder – so have your massage therapist check that out.

In spite of the injury, my surfing experience was great. I met a couple of guys that have a bar/restaurant in San Juan del Sur called Republika who also give surf lessons. Cory and his wife Mandy and an Irishman named Pete, took incredibly good care of me. I was the only one out that afternoon and truly received specialized instruction and attention. Cory gave me the basics and stayed with me the whole time until I had to get out of the water. Pete hung with me before and after the lesson, talking about his surfing adventures in Ireland and all around South America. So if you are down this way, check them out. They will take you on excursions to little known breaks up and down the Pacific Coast.

They said I was the first person they had taught who got up on the board the first try and rode it all the way in – sweet!!! Make sure and check these guys out if you ever get down this way. The website is www.lasolassolsurfing.com.

I have always felt a little intimidated by the surf crowd because they seemed so cool and hip and a closed community to those that don’t surf. This experience showed me how wrong my perceptions can be. I felt completed accepted and never once did I feel lessened by the fact that I am a “newbie.” (Although I may be too old to be considered a grom, I might be looked at as a kook until I get better).

It has been soccer fever here (futbol in th rest of the world). Kids and adults are playing in the streets while the major leagues are playing in South Africa. Actually soccer is not very popular in Nicaragua where baseball has been the national sport for many years. This is because the US has had a presence (for better or worse) here since the 1800s.

Present - Now I am sitting here in Ciudad Dario, deciding if I should head back to San Juan and try to hook up with the crew that is filming the new season of Survivors or head to Honduras. If anyone has any contacts in the Survivor television show production I would love the introduction. Hollywood here I come!!

Peace my fellow life travelers.

James

San Juan del Sur, Rivas, Nicaragua

July 1st, 2010

San Juan del Sur, Rivas, Nicaragua

Imagine ….. the darkening sky filled with thunder clouds teased awake by faraway flashes of lightening. Looking east from the rancho, the sub-tropical puesto del sol (setting sun) reflects oranges and reds and pinks on the bruised skyline, creating a surreal luminosity that sharpens the contrast of the myriad greens in the surrounding forest, lending them an almost plastic appearance.

In the gloom the sounds of hidden tropical forest citizens fill the deepening evening with unfamiliar warps, whistles and whoops backed up by the constant chorus of buzzing and clicking insects. If what is said is true that music is to be found in the space between the notes, then I wonder if this most natural, full, soul lifting sound would be classed as music within that dogmatic interpretation.

Today is July 1, and this is my tenth day back in Nicaragua after an six year absence. Last night at the yoga retreat center El Camino del Sol, as we were enclosed by the night,
Katyanna Ryan lead me through a dancing mixture of various yoga asanas, interspersed with her simple chanting, postural corrections and heart centered breath work. What is normally a class with a various number of students ended up being a private session with this vital and experienced teacher.

After class last night I ended at one of the many beachside bar/restaurants, enjoying a fresh tuna salad and conversation with another expat who was visiting from Masaya.

Many things have changed in San Juan since I was here last about 8 years ago, mostly the number of hotels, hostels, bars, restaurants and foreigners. Lots of expats living here now – some retirees, some adventurers, and some young people looking for an escape from the pressures of first world life.

Hotel prices vary from $4 a night upwards to $80 or more. I found a nice little place off the beach the Hotel Encanto del Sur. The site is only in Spanish right now but they are working on the translation. It is $15 a night for a private room with a shower and access to the kitchen and free wi-fi.

Although a lot of the “traditional” way of life here is going way, it is nice to have a place where your credit and debit cards work; a place where you can get a good cup of coffee and a fruit plate for breakfast at El Gato Negro.

I have been up in Ciudad Dario, in the northern state of Matagalpa, visiting friends and old haunts. I lived in this sleepy rural town of about 10,000 for two and one-half years starting in June, 1999. My kids came with me and my son, James, stayed for over a year. The reason I had come to Nicaragua was to work with the non-profit organization Seeds of Learning. They work in education and support as well as building schools and community centers in rural Nicaragua.

About the third day I was in country this time I headed up to Dario and was invited to join a work group from the states and we headed to Las Delicious which was the first community I worked in when I arrived in 1999. It was heartwarming to see how the community has grown and the young people are taking part in community projects.

This is a sacred life, meant to be lived deeply and fully. I feel blessed to be able to do that in a way that suits me and to honor how others choose to exemplify sacredness in their lives.

Thank you for joining me on this journey.

Be Melting Snow

April 16th, 2010

Be Melting Snow

Totally conscious, and apropos of nothing, you come to me.
Is someone there? I ask.
The moon. The full moon is inside your house.

My friends and I go running into the street.
I’m in here, comes the voice from the house, but we aren’t listening.
We’re looking up into the sky.
My pet nightingale sobs from like a drunk in the garden.
Ringdoves scatter with small cries, Where, Where.
It’s midnight. The whole neighborhood is up and out
in the street thinking, The cat burglar has come back.
The actual thief is there too, saying out loud,
Yes, the cat burglar is somewhere in this crowd.
No one pays attention.

Lo, I am with you always means when you look for God,
God is in the look of your eyes,
in the thought of looking, nearer to you than your self,
or things that have happened to you.
There is no need to go outside.

Be the melting snow.
Wash yourself of yourself.

A white flower grows in the quietness.
Let your tongue become that flower.

— Jelaluddin Rumi

Blessings

April 12th, 2010

This path, this life choice even at the beginning stages has brought many blessings and a continuous opening of consciousness. People are fascinating – the culture in every place (even in the US) is unique and interesting ; from the valley bedroom communities to the laid back beach side. I really feel that the human race is continuing to evolve emotionally and spiritually. There is a keen interest in self improvement and an understanding of the letting go of “self” as the only way to do that. This is coupled with the evolution and understanding of the nature of things like quantum physics, the understanding of “there is no separation” and the shrinking of the world through technology.

I see a frustration with the “human condition” and most people’s sense that the structure beginning to lose its meaning and value – there is something else to experience and a different way to be. For some it means a complete break with the daily grind and the dominate paradigm (me) and for others it is being where they are and understanding that it is an inside job. There is no good or bad – there just is.

The freedom that results from this is fascinating. It is like jumping off a cliff except there is no falling – no place to go. Joy and sorrow balance on the razors edge of being – the being of human experience and the true being of Spirit.

I am blessed to be where I am, doing what I am doing. Sharing the experience with my fellow humans.

Thank you – and see you on the road to happy destiny.
James

James Humecky
Transformational Bodywork
707-813-8444

Transformation and a new Paradigm – and going to LA today

March 18th, 2010

Hello Bay Area, San Jose and Santa Cruz, Mendocino, Los Angels and all points in-between,

San Jose was great! Couple of good sessions and a niceplace to lay my head. Now I am on my way to Los Angles for ten days. Should be available for clients on Monday (maybe tomorrow if I feel rested enough).

My tentative schedule is:
March 6 through March 14 in LA area
March 15 through 18 Bakersfield area
March 19 through 26 Mendocino
March 27 through April 3 Sacramento and Chico

April 4 through 15 San Rafael and Bay Area
April 15 through 25 LA
April 26 through May 3 Mendocino
May 4 through May 15 San Rafael and Bay Area
May 15 through June 30 Central America

I now offer my work from a place of deep gratitude. In other words – pay what you feel it is worth. For those who have experienced it and “get it” it is priceless and I won’t keep anyone from their healing process because of money. I am traveling and doing my work and will be working my way around the world over the next few years.
Sessions are typically two-hours, maybe a little less maybe a little more – we will follow what your body and spirit need. The modalities I work with range from serious deep tissue/myfacial release/structural integration work to shiatsu/acupressure, passive stretch/Thai/yoga massage, breath work(holotropic and pranayama) and energy work. What you get out of it is dependent on how you choose to show up on the table. I promise to show up with all of me and hold sacred space for your work.
I would be happy to come to your place or a place that is convenient but if I do that I would also like to work with one or two other people.
Please feel free to pass this information on to anyone who you think might benefit from this work.
I will soon have a website and blog up that will have more information about the process of Transformational Bodywork and about who I am.
This is a grand experiment and I am excited to see where it takes me.

Peace,
James